Life Unscripted: Ethan Earned his Angel Wings

The Day I Became a Heart Mother

The Day I Became A Heart Mother
One day my world came crashing down,
I'll never be the same.
They told me that my baby was sick.
I thought, "Am I to blame"?
I don't think I can handle this.
I am really not that strong.
It seemed my heart was breaking.
I have loved him for so long.
I will not give up on this child.
I will listen to your advice.
I will give my son any chance.
No matter what the price.
I will learn all that
I need To help my baby thrive.
I'll even use that feeding tube.
My child must survive!
Will he need a lot of therapy?
Will he gain the needed weight?
Please God, help me do this.
As I accept our fate.
When the monitors beep at night,
it serves as my reminder.
How many parents would love that sound.
Tomorrow I will be kinder.
As another Angel earns his wings
,I run to my baby's bed.
I watch him sleep for quite a while.
I bend down and kiss his head.
I cry for the parents whose hearts have been broken.
I look toYou wondering why?
Oh Lord,I just can't know your ways....no matter how I try.
And yet,I trust you hold his life,and guide us through each day.
My mind says savor each moment he's here,
but my heart begs,"PLEASE let him stay"!
From pacing the surgical waiting room,
to sitting by his bed.
From wishing for a good nights sleep,
to learning every med.
From wondering,"Will he be alright?",
to watching him reach out his hands.
With every smile my heart just melts,
despite life's harsh demands.
For all who see that faded line.
I look to them and smile.
You see my child is loved so much.
I would face ANY trial.
That scar I trace with my finger(It's the door to his beautiful heart).
God must have known how much I'd love him(Just as He loved him from the start).
A heart mom is always a heart mom.
Now wise beyond her years.
For those who have angels in heaven,
Our hearts share in all of your tears.
Every day I will try and remember,
I was chosen for him (and no other).
I will always embrace that beautiful day.......
When I became a"Heart Mother".

~Stephanie HustedMommy to Braeden
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Carepage name: babyhusted

Friday, August 21, 2009

Ethan Earned his Angel Wings

Oh baby Ethan, you will be missed so much. Ethan put up a long hard fight for 6 months, but his little heart could not take anymore, and as of this morning at 1am, his little heart gave up and said enough. He now is whole and in no pain, but the rest of his family and friends now grieve his loss.

Until we meet again Ethan, watch over all of us. Stay near to your mommy and daddy, for they already miss you so.

Our prayers are with the entire Skidmore family, please stop by their page to read about Ethan's courageous story.

Love Hugs and Blessings
Jenna

1 comment:

Kaitlin Marcelo said...: I'm so very sorry about baby Ethan i am very sad of what has happend and i feel deep in side that he is with everyone in heaven he is now right beside his mommy and daddy and are with the angels! I am Sorry For Your Loss.; August 22, 2009 at 5:08 PM